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to speak arrogantly to the person in the wrong,
to speak with bitterness and a i-am-great tone?
If someone speaks arrogantly to you when you're wrong,
is it right to speak back loudly or rudely?
If someone speaks back 2 u when u noe u're right,
will you step on de head of dat person?
take de opportunity 2 do wat others did 2 u b4?
Will u read dis n go away feelin "changed", a new person,
oni 2 react de same way de nex time dis happens?
If sum1 u claim 2 luv does sumthin annoying or dumb, do you claim 2 b mad n frustrated wif sum1
bcos u luv n care a lot about dat person? And den, you make it ur "responsibility" to "help" dis person.
Y den does dis lead 2 a prolonged argument n
a bad aftertaste in the palate of ur soul after?
Instead of curing wat u intended 2 cure,
did u not oni deepen de wound? Lower his/her morale n self-confidence?
If you say relationships nid 2 b "official",
does dat mean ur luv is fake?
Does it show that u're not romantic?
Or dat u're playin safe?
If you said u juz hav 2 send across de msg dat u're in luv,
where would the boundary of luv lie?
Is it a look in the eyes?
Or a kind word or two?
Is it a grip in rush hour?
Or holding hands while walking?
A hug?
A peck on the cheek?
A kiss on the hand?
What if all just means "I care for you, as a friend"?
Does it?
Or not?
If u tote dat sum1 luvs u thru his/her actions,
but find out he/she doesnt,
will u get mad at de person? Insist dat u "shud" not b dat close anymore? Dat u "shudnt" be good frens or frens at all anymore?
Is it his/her fault, dat de signal was wrongly misinterpreted?
Every1 has their own definition of boundaries.
So, is it or is it not dat person's fault for acting based on his/her beliefs or principles?
Dis world is full of strange things. 1 of it being us, humans.
Always, always angry wif other ppl, blinded. So much so dat v do illogical things dat hurt each other w/o any gud reason at all often leading to our own loss. Weird.
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